Ninety Words

Sometimes in life you have to know when to say “when”. Even under the worst of circumstances–loss of a loved one–you must put a stop to the constant craving that will never be satisfied by what is lost. You need to leave room to fill up on what may be.

Sometimes, when things seem bleak, you can discover something that takes you out of yourself, shows that you are still teachable, that play is important, and most things improve with a little love.

A marriage can make you a better person and working to make that marriage last can give you a life’s worth of wonderful memories. Some reflections on the best twenty years of my life.